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2006/4/21 SPACE down2 days i can't login to my MSN Space, but my friends in Malaysia were reading my SPACE whenever i said my SPACE is down here.
I did surveys on the other MSN Spacer here, for sure everyone encountered the same problems, so i tried to logon my SPACE by using secure tunnel, like:
http://securebar.secure-tunnel.com/cgi-bin/nph-freebar.cgi/110110A/http/spaces.msn.com/leehuisia/  You know what happened? I could login to my SPACE by using secure tunnel...question arise, why MSN SPACES in China have been blocked for 2 days, is it those higher people want to check something, or MSN Spacers going to rise up turmoil....crazy!!!Of course, everything has its own reason!! FruitsSeldom see these fruits in Malaysia. Could see the peaches in fruit stalls occasionally in KL. Badly, i never see peaches in KK, Sabah. I tried these fruits here, i like the loquat very well, sweet, juicy and even cheaper.
Those pictures were taken by using phone camera, so not that clear.
杨梅 (waxberry)
从化李 (dunno what in english)
挑驳李 (dunno what in english)
枇杷(loquat)
Sick AgainJo having a bad cough, i don't know why, is it because the weather? Suddenly hot then suddenly cold, is it a symptom of welcoming the Spring? Coughing is quite difficult to be cured, what is the best medicine to cure cough? Headache, once he gets cough, mummy would become busier to clean up the vomiting things. Why vomit is associated with the cough?
** I read an article stated that chocolate can cure bad cough, but i'm not dared to try as i know chocolate can cause phlegm too! ** 2006/4/18 Boyish Nature老公说儿子的嘴巴现在越来越烦，还没真正说的流利都觉得烦，等流利后就会更烦，现在骂儿子他还会懂得顶嘴，迟点都不知怎么有耐心来 "应酬"他。儿子一边看电视一边在说话，我在一边写blog都觉得他的声音格外刺耳。他到了两岁才真正学讲话，而我也真正到了现在才相信"反事都有定时"，为什么我这样说:
一岁半前儿子不爱读书，不管我在旁陪读都好都不能培养他主动拿书看的习惯。而我每次拿起书他都好抗拒。 过了一岁半后，儿子总主动拿起他的书，而且还要父母不停的 "说书"给他听，当然他还会跟着大人们一起念。如果半途停了，他还烦着哭闹说"book....book...要book"，有时听到他说book我都觉得很烦。
两岁前儿子总不吃肉，我给他尝一小口，而他也总吐出来。 两岁后，每天吃饭的时候他总要说 "肉。。肉"，好像无肉不欢似的。
两岁前儿子总不爱说话，连爸爸妈妈也不爱叫，他也重来不表达自己要的东西。 儿子在 23个月才真正开始说话，现在25个月了，会说好多的话，双字不比单字多，最近我教他说"我爱耶稣"和"我要吃饭"，他每次说完都会很高兴的拍手，虽然不是说的很标准，但还是听得明白。现在听到他叫爸爸妈妈就烦了，肯定他又有所要求。
以前的儿子很温顺，重来不会打架。 现在的他开始很霸道，一些小事故都会和其他的小朋友争来争去，甚至推人打人都一流。 男孩始终是男孩，我知道打架顽皮惹事的一天始终会到来，当然他吃滕条的机会也越来越多， 3岁定80，现在不教几时教?
长大的孩子当然要求也越来越多。
星期六我们到了澳门去玩，当天是进入春天以来最冷的一天，中午时分大慨才13度，而且还括着强风，我们去吃了驰名的猪扒包，闻名不如一见，还要等上半个钟才有机会吃的到，最特别的是不用ORDER，等伙记拿着食物出来时去枪自己所要吃的就可以了。傍晚时分我们就回中山了，在巴士上我还打了儿子几巴掌，他坏蛋到要在车上走来走去。 晚上老公忍无可忍地用衣架打儿子，儿子哭着来找我，我也很不客气地打埋他一份，我说他越来越没有礼貌，爱顶嘴，爱争东西，老公看着 bible他都要去抢，又不肯刷牙，洗了头又不肯抹干，冲了凉又还要玩水，抹干身又不肯穿衣，一边喂他吃饭他就一边吐饭出来，我煮饭的时候他又总爱吵我，我说带他带到我自己都会发脾气。儿子一直地哭，其实都很心疼他，老公还对他说"爸爸以后都不再打Jojo"，而做妈妈的却说"不听话就要打"。
星期天， Happy Easter，儿子再一次的捣蛋，他在教堂里大喊大闹，我很生气的抱了他出去，他还不停得挣扎要自己走来走去，又一直不停的哭，我更生气地打他的脸，为什么要打他的脸，因为他穿的太厚了，唯有脸是最好的地方。他的脸被我打到红红肿肿，甚至被我打到不敢再哭，可是没一会儿，他又恢复要捣蛋的样子。男孩就是特别"牛精"吗?2006/4/13 Want or Don't wantmummy: 要不要和爸爸一起? Joshua: 要！ mummy:要不要和妈咪一起? Joshua:要！ mummy:要不要和婆婆一起? Joshua:要！ mummy:要不要和公公一起? Joshua:要！ mummy:要不要和舅舅一起? Joshua:要！ mummy:要不要和翔翔弟弟一起? Joshua:翔翔，翔翔，要！ mummy:要不要和dog一起? Joshua:不要！ mummy:要不要和cat一起? Joshua:不要！
我还以为他一直答 "要"后会混乱，谁知当我问他要不要和狗猫一起的时候，他即然会答"不要"，原来他还很专心听我的问题。Clever BOY!! 2006/4/9 Exhausted Night due to Jo feverJo started fever on Monday, his fever subsided after the medicine, but the matter become more seriously on Tuesday, he suddenly fever again after his afternoon nap, by the time onwards his fever was totally out of my control, paraceptamol wasn't able to free him from the heaty. He took barley besides of the medicine, i fed him a plenty of water, but out of his normal manner that he rejected to drink, i suspected he got sore throat and i planned to bring him to doctor on next morning.
On the Thursday morning, i brought him to doctor that locate nearby my house, this lousy doctor couldn't check Jo's throat properly and simply told me that was sore throat infection. He said he got flu too, i told the doctor my son didn't get flu and how come he insisted to say he got infected. He gave me some antibiotic and some herbs medicine. Jo didn't seem to be getting back to normal after taking the medicine here, he has high fever around 39 degree, i was quite panic to see him laying on the bed quietly and his lip and face were so red. He has low appetite too, not asking any milk and rice. Beside that, he kept vomitting out everything. At 4pm, i quickly brought him to hospital, it was raining heavily at that time, i called the taxi and carried Jo down, i was so scared he got wet as he doesn't have rain coat, i'm so regretted why i didn't buy one for him this morning as i saw one at China Dollar 39, at first i thought it's not worth to buy and not always have to use it, only at that moment i felt totally regretted. Now, i know i have to invest one for him, who knows the unforeseen incident? At the hospital, the doctor talked nonsense to me, she suspected Jo having appendicitis and insisted him to admit to hospital. I asked her how to make sure that it's appendicitis, after asking, she pressed Jo tummy hardly, for sure JO would cry and moved his body away from her hands, she told me is appendicitis after this repeating actions. Then i asked her how many days should him to stay in hospital, she told me she don't know too as maybe need to take operation asap. My eyeballs almost drop when i heard about operation, at first, i don't believe the doctor's skill here, second, i didn't pack Jo's stuff, third, Jo need to sleep with other kids, i mean he's easily to get infected of other sickness. I asked about the optional, she said no excuse as he must stay in hospital in case his appendicitis get seriuosly. I don't have any knowledge about the appendicitis, i don't kow how to diagnosis acurately, i asked the doctor whether could have an x-ray, she said no, i asked about the medicine, she said no again, then i asked her how to make sure it's an appendicitis, she talked funny again as she said just staying in hospital and they would do what they should do. I almost fainted to hear those nonsense, i called my hubby and told him all the doctor said, he finally made a decision that bring Jo down to Macau hospital. Hubby reached home at 6:30pm, we quickly moved our luggage into the car in case of we need to stay overnight in Macau. Jo was sleeping throughout the way to Macau, hubby asked me to sleep a while as it might be very busy in hospital later, i couldn't sleep as i was too worried about Jo's condition even though i know there would be another 1 hour distance to Macau. The rain still falling, the weather make me more upset as how to enter the custom later, how to walk through the long roadside to reach the arriving hall, how's the condition of the custom gate, would it be sardines again, everything came and gone that kept flashing in my mind. We arrived at the "Gong Bei Custom" at 7:45pm, it was quite cold but i didn't wear a coat as it was too rushing to go to Macau. The condition of the custom was definitely OK and we took less than half an hour to cross both China and Macau customs. Joshua was too tired, he closed his eyes most of the time, but when I filling the departure forms he suddenly opened his eyes and pointed to his passport photo and uttered out "Jo Jo", he fell asleep after saying his name. His face and lip were redness, even his body was like "fire", i wasn't sure about the temperature on that time, i know he was very hot and the hot made him dizzy all the time long. I bought one termometer that put under the armpit from China, but i never expect it would spoil after 1 time using, although i have the ear thermometer, i still couldn't believe the accuracy from the ear thermometer as last time my paed told me temperature from under armpit is accurated than others. I feel like i was being cheated by the pharmacy man, i even couldn't stop myself on blaming the China's product, how could it be so lousy? We reached the "Kiang Wu Hospital" at 8:20pm, it was quite troublesome to register as we're foreigners, i told the nurse my son might be have appendicitis, she tested his temperature by putting the thermometer under his "pat pat", he was 39.1 degree and the nurse graded us as third stage, it means first stage is for all the emergencies, second stage should wait for the turn not more than a hour, third stage should wait for not more than 2 hours and the fouth only be served if there are no first to thrid stages's cases. For my running numbers, i need to wait for another 28 patients, Jo kept dizzy while we were waiting. I asked hubby to buy a Ribena as I really hope Jo could drink his water by mixing with Ribena. In China, there is no Ribena, i was so regretted why i didn't bring one from M'sia, even regretted why i didn't buy it from Hong Kong as i saw it in supermarket last week when having a trip there, i didn't buy because it is too expensive, it's HKD55, is really not worth to buy as it almost RM28 in M'sia Ringgit, if in M'sia, is less than RM10 can buy 1 bottle. Without the choice, bought from Macau at HKD50, expensive but this time feel like it's very worth to buy.
Jo start drinking his Ribena, but suddenly he vomitting the Ribena out, it wet my pant and wet himself, hubby washed him in toilet, there was a nice lady borrow her coat to Jo while the time i was looking for his clothes. After vomitting, he fell asleep again, mummy first time seeing Jo like this, no appetite for food and no milk all day long, he would vomit everything out once i forced him to drink water. But, when fever it can't be no water right? After 1 and half hour waiting, it finally turn to us, doctor said Jo needed a jab to cool down his fever. When Jo on the bed, he took a look on us a while and shut down his eyes again. When the nurse wanted to jab him, he cried very loud and kept saying "bu yao" (don't want), of course finally he was being jabbed. After the injection, he cried and pointing his pat pat said "tong-tong" (painful), his temper was out of control, but we tried to soothing him without scolding him. I asked doctor about the appendicitis, doctor told me it's not possible to have it as Jo didn't cry when doctor pressing his tummy. He said might be a virus infection that make the fever not subsiding. I felt comfortable when the doctor told me this, i even comfortable with all the medicines as it's totally like the medicine in M'sia. I'm not saying the China doctors are lousy, but they give me unethical image and somemore Jo already get used of the western medicine, his body won't have any reactions while taking herbs medicine, like example, his fever won't subside after taking the herbs medicine this morning after seeing the lousy doctor at my place.
After the injection, we should wait for another 45 minutes, we could leave the hospital if Jo fever started to subside. I put jo sleeping on the chair, he kept dreaming at that time, he shouted "tong-tong" (painful) again but his eyes still closing. After a while, he said "wu-wu" by showing his hand like aeroplane flying, of course, his eyes still closing, And after a while, he said "kai-kai" (shopping) again, really pity him, fever made him dreams non-stop.
At 10:35pm, Jo temperature dropped to 38 degree and we're allowed to leave the hospital. After leaving the hospital, we went to 7-11 to buy some magazines and milk, i haven't had my dinner on that time, somemore, i was too tired, tired for rushing to everywhere. Then we headed to custom to go back to Zhong Shan. Hubby's company driver still waiting us at "Gong Bei custom", too appreciating him for waiting us 3++ hours there. We reached our home at 12:15am, while the time still raining non-stop....but my heart felt better as seeing Jo fever was subside.
This is my rushing night to Macau, very exhausted...
2006/4/8 Lazy BugsHui Sia is in China now, just back on 27/3, time passes so fast that i have over my 2 1/2 months holiday in Sabah. As usual, life is boring here and everyday is a cooking and to be a maid day!
I'm so lazy, no mood to update my blog, no interest to surf net, but my only hobby is reading Hong Kong magazine...i can go down to Macau just because i want to buy Hong Kong magazine (1 hour distance, not including passing the custom), so like idiot, huh!!??? 2006/1/13 Hong Kong TripWe had our Hong Kong trip on 01.01.06, you won't believe as we had day trip to there this time also, we was initially planned to stay overnight in Shen Zhen (to save hotel cost) but finally we took the last ferry back to Zhong Shan. Why we finally to swerve our mind? It was because we bought too many things until we were not able to carry anymore. Both of my hubby and me were backpack a bag that full of clothes (for staying overnight), then after 7 hours shopping in Hong Kong, we suddenly got more loadings and somemore we needed to change our turn to carry our big bear ~ Joshua. So, how could we line up at Shen Zhen's custom with lot of bags?
Hong Kong had crazy sales at this new year day, crazy, so crazy!! My hubby kept mumbling hysterically on the way back as he said we used money like using water. Really? Ya, a bit, but the stuffs there are too cheap, if i don't buy it would like so sorry to myself. Anyway, he was the fruitful buyer than me.
p/s: Pictures are at the bottom!! 2006/1/11 Going back to M'siaI will be going back to KL this Sunday (15/1/06), i'm craving for the Nasi Lemak now, i miss SUN too, planning to have a sun bathe, i miss KL a lots....
Recently too lazy to update my blog, i was sick since Christmas, diarrhea, fever, sore throat (Quinsy) and vomit all coming to visit me, but blissfully i lost 5kg. At every morning i even can see my weight below 60, you know, i never seen the scale showing below 60 after having Joshua, that's the miracle.
Going to leave this winter soon, i hate to be cold when i am here but i know i'll miss the cold when i am in Malaysia. Cold cracks my hands, legs and heels, i hate to touch the water especially in kitchen, the cold like frostbiting my nerve. All my winter clothes are going to pack soon....when i'm here again, it'll be a SPRING time!!
HAPPY Chinese New Year to you!! 2005/12/24 Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to my family, ex-colleagues, friends and bloggers.
p/s: Sorry for not updating my blog and not reading your blog as recently i'm busying to practise my yoga and outgoing with my friends. Somemore, all my IE (internet explorer)windows would close when i just open blogspot through secure tunnel.
I would like to pre-Congratulate Sue first as she is going to deliver soon. Hehehe, 2 more weeks to go...
If you like to update me, you can copy your blog and send to me, is more appreciated if you can do this for me as secure tunnel really unstable for blogspot. Please....
2005/12/15 Trip to MacauDestination - Macau
Date - 11/12/2005, Sunday
Bus Fare - RMB50 for returning fare for 2 adults. (Only RM25 in M'sia)
We had our trip to Macau this morning, supposingly to leave my house at 10am, but my lousy washing machine had being the culprit that delayed my leaving time. We left at 11am to bus-stand and rushing for 11:40am bus to Zhu Hai's custom. We reached Zhu Hai (珠海) at 12:40 noon, i started to see the crowds at the custom once i stepped my feet down from the bus, i had a turning back mind as i hate to queue up the lines but just don't want to chill off the chance of getting my first family trip in China.
Fortunately we are foreigners that have a short line to wait for our turn. It took half hours to depart from Zhu Hai's custom, and another half hours to enter into Macau. Both of my hubby and myself like "straggle houseflies" that wandering on the road without target heading place, of course we didn't plan well for the trip and the moment we started grumbling on each other for improper planning to Macau. Luckily we finally found a famous place to scout to, we took a bus to Xin-Ma-Lu (新马路), it is a place with lot of retail shops at your left and right side and also a famous gathering place for youngster, i think even for Philippines :)
We visited to a Roman Catholic church in Xin-Ma-Lu, it's so splendid (don't compare with Europe) that i couldn't control myself to shoot photo even it's not allowed to do this. I think my camera flash was disturbing to those holy prayers, i know i was so annoying, hehehe, but i still managed to get one dark dark photo due to my over-nervous shooting.
We just have road-shopping and I was busying to look at those pretty girls and my Joshua. Joshua was excited too to wander on the crowded road with seeing all the pretty legs and buttocks due to his minimum height. After that, we were going to Da-San-Ba (大三巴牌坊), the idols on Da-San-Ba are fulled with pigeon shits that looks very awesome. We went to visit a tomb too, it's a tomb for memorizing a famous father that built up the church. After the tomb, we visited to the cannon wall and have a leisurely walks there. The weather there was good, not hot not cold with some wind.
Before heading back, we're rushing to buy some souvenir, famous almond biscuits and some rou-gan (肉干). We arrived at Macau custom at 5:30pm, we took 15 mins to chop our passports and after that we took 15 mins to shop at the duty-free shop. Hubby bought one Black Label wine and i bought one Estee Lauder's perfume. We arrived at Zhu Hai custom at 6pm, i almost fainted down when i saw the terrible foreigner's line, it's just one lane for foreigners and we took 1 hour 40 mins to step in to Zhu Hai's boundary. We're rushing for the 8pm bus, it's the last bus to Zhong San (中山), if we miss this bus, we need to pay RMB120 for taxi to home. Luckily we still on time to take the last bus.
When we waiting for our turn in Zhu Hai's custom, i was accidentally to break my hubby new bought wine (RMB180), it was so embarrassment scene that i can't forget about my mistake for not holding the plastic bag nicely. No need to say lo, hubby sure face dark dark when his lovely wine was perfused on the floor.
We arrived Zhong San at 9pm and we had Kentucky for our dinner, Oh, Kentucky here is very lousy if compare to M'sia, at least M'sia can have big chicken breast, drumstick or chicken wing, but here just with small small chicken wings, the lady told me Kentucky here only selling chicken wings, opps, i'm so "so-ku" to know this...We were home at 10pm while Joshua was still sleeping all the way long from Zhu Hai to home.
This's my trip to Macau.....normal and tired but it's a cheap trip.
Pictures sharing section:
2005/12/10 Jojo is learningMummy : bei....bei (blanket) *pointing the blanket*
Joshua : bei....bei *with little voice out*
Mummy : bei....bei
Joshua : *gradually loudly* bei....bei
Mummy : bei....bei
Joshua : bei....bei
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Mummy : bo....bo (ball) *pointing the ball*
Joshua : bo....bo
Mummy : bo....bo
Joshua : bo....bo
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After 5 minutes:
Mummy : What is this? *with pointing the blanket*
Joshua : ee...ar....ar....
Mummy : bei....bei.....
Joshua : bi....bi....
Mummy : not bi....bi...., is bei....bei....
Joshua : mi....mi....
Mummy : *almost pengsan*
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Mummy : why Jojo likes to say bi....bi....what is bi bi?
Daddy : I taught him to say bi....bi....
Mummy : why bi...bi....
Daddy : easy to say ma....
Mummy : but no meaning
Daddy : is meaningful now, at least he knows how to say bi....bi....when he sees me.
Mummy : you must teach him to say ba....ba first la...then combine together is babi (pig)!
Daddy : %^%^$%#%@$
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Jo almost 21 months, but his vocabularies still like "limited company" if compare his peers in China. Why arr?? Secure tunnelThanks Shiau Lin for informing the usage of secure tunnel to access blogspot, hohohoho, i can access blogspot now! But, quite slow to load the blogspot's page....!!
It looks like : ---
But, please off your Word Verification, if not i'm not able to comment on your blog!
(Names will be kept adding once i know you have word verification on)
-- Tracy
-- Sharon
-- Jess
-- Rachel
-- Twinilla
-- Chanel (you don't have word verification, but don't know why i can't comment it as saying not allow anonymous to comment)
-- Annie
-- ShoppingMum
Oh, should be busying soon to comment all the blogs. See you! 2005/12/7 I can't access to Blogspot in CHINASadly to say this, i think most of you have already known that some areas in China are being prohibited to access to Blogspot, my hubby can access Blogspot in his office, but not at my staying area.
Hope you are not in the following list, but unfortunately most of my blogger links are using Blogspot:
-- Rachel
-- Sue
-- Jasmine
-- Annie
-- Chanel
-- Shoppingmum
-- PapiMami
-- Jesslyn Tai
-- EggHead
-- Jefferene
-- DomesticGoddess
-- ShiauLin
-- Sharon - Brendan & Eryn
-- Tracy
-- Twinnilla
The blogs that i can access are:
-- Twinsmom
-- Sabrina
-- Michelle
Aiyo, siao lo, just 3 only!! Anyway, hope Blogspot's bloggers can visit my blog even i can't access yours. Thank You! 2005/12/4 I'm Back!!Hurray!!....Finally i got my broadband connection this morning, oh, i don't know how to describe my feeling here, it likes I'M BACK to what i used to do normally. I miss INTERNET, i miss all my friends...what else? Emmm..I miss everything, aiyo, want to say again, I'm very HAPPY now!
But...i haven''t got my portable notebook, now using hubby's one, sob sob, i only able to logon to internet at night time.
Is very cold now, around 8 degree outside, i haven't fully bought all the winter clothes, those China ladies are more in small size, the bigest size of the garment just in L, aiyo, i need XL or XXL ma...Somemore, i plan to buy a boot, but the bigest only in size 39, but i wear size 40, huh, so kasihan to myself.
I have an enjoyable life here, everyday only wake up when the sun on my pat pat, then boil a soup for Jo, wash all the bottles, after start going out to eat my brunch and do shopping, or sometimes bring Jo to playground, he could play for more than 2 hours there while mummy chit-chatting with some aunties there. My staying environment is extremely good, facilities are completely satisfied, it has saloon, convenience store, restaurant, VCD shop, yoga centre, piano learning centre, library, gym centre, playground (indoor and outdoor), swimming pool (indoor and outdoor), fountains, lake and golf field. See, everything inside my condominium boundary. I like the playground, it has a twister slide and monkey bar, Jo loves the twister bar very much. One thing important that it has specially bus for residents here, every half hour from our "Kai Yin" to town and every 15 mins from town to "Kai Yin". I no need to do house chores as i have a part time maid here, life seems to be more easier than KL, but you won't know my feeling, you know the theory of "give and take", you possess something but you give up something too, i mean most of the time only mummy and Jojo alone at home, hubby is busy, need to work and need to have entertainment outside too, see, i'm like enjoying "siu lai lai" life in China, but actually i feel lonely most of the time especially when my son 2 days didn't meet his daddy, see, staying in one root also not able to meet daily, then what the advantage of earning more? Is it for me to have this enjoyable life here, or i need to say like this "if i want this kind of enjoyable life, is it meant that i need to sacrifice my precious family time? Haha, i'm in dilemma, i like to enjoy, but i like my family time with hubby too...so, what to do? Keep on enjoying and keep on sacrificing, at least i know my Puchong house loan can be settled very soon. This is our main target why we are here.
Anyway, i'm HAPPY too.. 2005/10/28 Blog offMy blog will be off for 1 month (approximately), will be started blogging once i settle everything in China. Sorry for not able to read and comment your blog too as no internet service once i leave my company.
Today is my last day in Think & Learn (from 1/9/04 to 28/10/05), I will miss you all, See ya!! 2005/10/25 Same stories again21 October 2005 Today is Selangor Holiday, mummy have 3 holidays in sequence. Holiday means nothing to mummy as daddy isn't around. Sent Jo to nanny as usual working time, mummy enjoyed reading on newspaper and having a brunch at same kopitiam. The chef asked me whether i want "Wan-Dan-Ho" or not, he nodded to me after i said i would like to eat "Wan-Dan-Yi-Mee". The chef is familiar at me after few times visiting there with same meal.
I took Hepatitis A jab today, must take it as i'm a frequent outside eater. I seldom cook as i have a TROUBLESOME kitchen that make me hate to cook at home. After that, i have my spree time in Sunway Pyramid and shrinking my wallet by spending money in Anakku as it has 70% off. Wah, it was likened at Hytex warehouse sales as mummy managed to buy cheap shirts and shorts for my little darling.
I have another new look now, i would think this new image is more appropriated to me. As like the hair stylist said i would deserve to have this look at this age. Hahaha, i'm agreed as the curly hair really drive me to downhill and more like AUNTY.
22 October 2005
Today Jo and mummy have our "Dim-Sum" breakfast in Puchong. Jo is showing his stuffy mood to mummy, so pity as he doesn't have much friends can hang around. After breakfast, we went to Jo's paed clinic for the jabs, Jo started to delight himself on playing the slide, but you will get shocked when you see the method of playing. He likes to play inverted by walking up the slide rather than gliding down. Smart huh?
Jo have 2 jabs at the same time, one on right buttock and another on left buttock. Very pity as he screamed for struggling out from 4 people who pressed on him. I think his crying isn't trying to show the pain as i never seen him crying during last few injections. But a bit kasihan have to jab 2 (Hepatitis A and Anti-Flu) at the same time.
Jo started to act his heroical to push doctor away while doctor trying to jab me. Mrs.Doctor smiled at him and praised him "Joshua so sayang mummy"! His galloping is terrible until the nurse jie jie needed to cuddle him to walk around. Jo seems like a big brother there as his squealling sounds is quelling the ceiling and the room.
At night, Vincent and Hui Jiun brought me out for a farewell dinner, it's a cosy dinner with good atmosphere. I always remind myself to teach Jo pray before food, but lousy mummy always forget the prayer. Jo have a good time with Daniel (8 months old), both of them hugged together like nobody arround them. Hui Jiun told me Daniel is sort of timid baby and would cry when seeing other baby, hehehe, but today Daniel is extremely being attracted by Joshua. Before we went out for dinner, Jo wetted himself again by playing in his big ship pool, mummy very angry as the time we're waiting for Vincent coming.
23 October 2005 Today is boring. Stay at home most of the time. I started to discover with Jo's new skills and habits, concluded as: When he wants to play water He'll take off his pants and diaper follow by his shirt then walk up to staircases. He would hint me by waving his hand in order to make mummy like the rail that can support him to go up. While in the toilet, he would pull the stool out and stand on it and start playing water beside the basin.
When he wants to poo poo He'll make a "uhmm-uhmm" sound with squatting pattern. His urge would redden his face. After the intense urged, he would go inside the toilet and want to sit on the toilet bowl. Have you ever met this kind of boy, sit on the toilet bowl only after the urge coming out. What's the theory?
When he wants to pee pee Despite of attaching with the disposable diaper or not, he still wants to pull out instead of take off his diaper to pee on toilet bowl or else where. Funny huh?
When he wants to drink water Pull mummy hair with pointing the water jug. He would utter "Ter..ter" (water) if he has a good mood.
When he wants his nen-nen (milk) He would lie on the bed by covering himself with the blanket (sometime he would stretch his feet inside the pillow case as if it's a blanket, such a good idea too) and mumbling without nobody can comprehend his meaning. Previously he said "mum-mum" to me but newest he says nothing. Fortunately mummy is clever enough to comprehend the meaning through his repetition actions.
When he craves for snack He would point to fridge and showing me with his hippo mouth. If i ignore his desire, he would bang bang the fridge till i open the fridge door again. Clever enough as he knows mummy will heartache the fridge that being bang bang.
When he craves for apple juice He would take the little juicer jug and his water bottle to me. He would grumble loudly like scolding mummy if i didn't have more over actions to take the apple and extract for him.
When the bathing water is hot He would pat his tummy (not heart) and walking to backward.
When mummy is "Shee..Shee" him He would shake his head to notice mummy he has empty bladder now while mummy still Shee..shee-ing him.
When he wants to watch TV He would sit quietly on the sofa and point to the TV.
When he wants to go outside He would wear his shoes correctly and pull mummy out to open the door.
When mummy try to wear him diaper He would take the mamypoko to me although i want him with Huggies. I always remind him no-no mamypoko at daytime but he is still smart enough to differentiate which diaper is more comfortable for him. But this is cruelty to mummy's wallet.
When mummy introduced him a new toys He won't show me any interesting as recently Jo is more intrigued with empty mugs, pail, bowl and those household items.
When mummy take out the little biscuit He would take his plastic bowl to hint me to put the biscuits inside. After that, he would sit on the sofa and enjoying his snack.
When having milk If mummy make him 8oz, he would finish 6oz. If mummy make him 6oz, he would finish 4oz. Why like to remain the another 2oz in bottle?
When mummy is praising/ greeting him He would act like very smug when mummy say "Jo, you're so handsome". He would kiss mummy's mouth when mummy say good morning and good evening to him.
Jo new developments: - Wear shorts by his own - Wear shoes correctly (being taught by uncle) - Single words are being improved, can utter "da-da (beat), tung-tung (painful), ter-ter (water), shoe, ma-ma (scold), die-die (fall down), ma-mi (mummy), pa-pa (daddy), bo-bo (ball), what else? Can't remember la.. - Can differentiate more single items when mummy asking him. Pointed correctly when mummy examining him with different body parts. But still get confused with Mandarin and English. - Chewing technique has been improved recently. - Motor skills have increased. Can run faster and turn himself with several rounds.
Above are mummy merely memories, will be increased and updated later if mummy can recall again.
24 October 2005 Tonight have my farewell dinner with current colleagues and ex-colleagues at Saisaki. I spent 2 hours to drive from Sunway to Saisaki, KL. Not faced a massive jam, most of the time got lost because mummy is direction idiot. I feel guilty for not bringing Jo along to Saisaki as he can eat more and variety now.
2005/10/19 What happened?Recently Jo likes to show out his temper incontrollably, he is completely to whine, cry and scream at me. What happened to my little boy? He almost drives me to nuts, sob..sob!!
By the time we reached home at 7pm, he started to whine till he falls asleep. Is he trying to show his sign of missing daddy or showing his stuffy mood? He makes me out of patient too, mummy like going nuts to handle him alone at night. Like the day before yesterday, he woke up at 2am and played till 5+am, i was definitely out of senses to scold him and force him laid down on the bed again. Despite of hearing by neighbour or not, i was unconsciously risen my voice for yelling him. Mummy is bad as i always think try not to shout at him, but most of the time i would lose control.
When Jo having his milk :
M - Jo, i tell you now, if you misbehave yourself again, i'll throw you outside.
J - *flatten his mouth, frowning and crinkled his forehead* (no crying sound but able to see his tears)
M - Aiyo, sayang sayang la, mummy sayang Jojo la...
J - *beaming his smile again*
M - Ok, you keep this info in your mind, don't be naughty again, if not, sure mummy will throw you to outside
J - *wailed with tears dropped*
M - Aiyo, mummy sayang sayang la, don't cry, good boy...
J - *beaming his smile again*
I think Jo played tricks to mummy la, like hypocrite!
No wonder he is not scared me la, i think i didn't give him a stern look instead of scolding a minute before but pampering him right after 1 minute. 2005/10/17 NEW LOOK + BAD MOODSaturday
Woke up at 7am, did chores like usual, boiled porridge for Jo (same ingredients as last weekend, want to clear my fridge). Every Saturday is same to me, i would like maid to do this la that la, aiyo, i prefer weekdays, at least i can sleep more. At 10+am, both of us have our breakfast at outside kopitiam, mummy ordered the same meal as last week, don't feel weird as i'm not that freshy, i can eat same thing for the same year. That's why i can love a guy for a lifetime period...hehehe, no la, if you can't eat same food for the same year doesn't mean that you can't love a person for a lifetime. After breakfast, sent Jo to nanny. Mummy started to have self-enjoyment in saloon, i planned to give myself a new look, ya, totally a new look, this is the second time for me to try on this in my 27 years of life, but, i tell you, i'm regretted to perm my hair as after perming i'm still deprived of PRETTY look. Sigh...so sigh...sob sob, aiyo, i wanna cry lo..I told my hubby that i'm going to do rebonding as i really hate to apply oil every morning and need to TWIST the hairs to be more stylist. I plunged myself into the worries, keep curl or straight it?? Ken said don't rebond first, at least let him see first, aiya, this look, ugly la.
Sunday
Almost raining a whole day, i like raining mostly when the time i'm sleeping. But, so hately if i want to go out, i felt so boring at home, for sure Jo also boring. I have my breakfast at 10:30am while it was still drizzling, so troublesome to bring Jo out in rainy day. Mummy so hungry, i couldn't wait anymore and Jo very co-operatived to cap himself, so mother and son have same breakfast as yesterday at the same kopitiam. After breakfast, we directly heading back to our home, the rain suddenly became heavy and made me dizzy. I lay on my mattress with my half-opened eyes, i wished i could close tightly and rest a whole afternoon but don't know why Jo has lot of energies to jump here and there. I managed to force him have a nap with me around 1:30pm, i woke up at 2pm to hang my clothes and wash the porch. Then, i boiled porridge for Jo's dinner and cooked my yummy fried-rice. Jo woke up around 4pm, from 4pm onwards, mother and son watched TV till 10pm. Not so educated for Jo, but mummy is too boring, if no TV lagi boring.
Jo have good appetite today:
Finally at 11:15pm, Jo vomitted everything on my body and comforter after 8oz of water. He usually demands water (a bottle by a bottle) before bed...then midnight want mummy wake up to change his diaper, the worst is sometimes i need to change thrice a night. If not, the next day i need to change my bedsheet and comforter again...sure his urine will overflow to my bed! 2005/10/14 Body ClockWhy we have auto set timer in our body? How could it be?
When i was teenager (high school period), i could wake up "on time" everyday without my mother or alarm calling. On my early 20, i still managed to wake up by my auto set timer, if yesterday i wake up at 7am, then today, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow or infinity days i still managed to wake up at 7am. But after having Jo, my body clock seem like getting malfunction. Now i only able to wake up when Jo wakes me up as every single minute is precious to me.
Today is the third day for Jo wakes up at 5:43am for his milk, he would sleep back around 6am, so does mummy. Although i need to wake up for making milk, i still think i'm lucky if compare to "egghead", he need to wake up at 5:45am for preparing out to work. At least i could sleep back till 8am, then only heading to wash Jo's bottles and bath myself. At 9am, i'm ready out to work. |
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